Sex and Ostomy: Recommendations and tips

For a person with an ostomy, the moment before a sexual encounter can generate fear and insecurity. Normal preparations such as showering, shaving, perfuming or wearing sexy lingerie will not be enough for an ostomate because the main concern will always be the visibility of the ostomy pouch or the problems it may cause in an intimate encounter.

Ostomy Products | Colostomy Bag Covers | SIIL Ostomy | Ostomy Belt | Ileostomy Underwear

Ostomy Intimate Body

Here are some guidelines to follow to enjoy your sexual encounters:

1. Try to achieve a relaxed atmosphere, where you feel safe both with your device and with yourself.
2. Focus on your feelings and those of your partner and forget about the ostomy and the pouch, as you did before the intervention.
3. It is important to create a suitable environment that allows you to be comfortable and relaxed. Use erotic games, dances, games, caresses, couple roles. Eroticize your body, your scars. Use alternatives that can facilitate stimulation as well as relaxation.

4. Before the sexual encounter, empty the pouch and make sure it is securely attached and in place. Prepare for the encounter. Planning for them can help you be more confident.

5. Be proactive with your diet and the liquids you are going to drink, so you can avoid those that produce gas, avoiding added complications such as the pouch swelling as a result of them.

6. If you are concerned about the appearance of the pouch, wear ostomy clothing. Adapted garments such as the ostomy belt or the SIIL Ostomy line ostomy bands/sashes.

7. If you are a woman, consider using “bodysuits” or crotchless or crotchless crotchless garments as well as ostomy bands.

We recommend the use of the SIIL Ostomy line Slim body to enjoy your intimacy with total security, hiding your ostomy pouch at the time.

8. You can use mini or midi size pouches or any device that takes up as little space as possible and allows you to feel comfortable.

9. If it is the first time you sleep with someone, do not do it naked. Always use some kind of garment such as bands/sashes, belts or bodysuits.

10. If you have a colostomy and it is irrigated, it is advisable to clean it just before having sex as it will allow you to use a small patch or a “safety bag” at that time.

11. Use sexual positions and postures that are comfortable for both of you. If you feel weaker than usual, try positions that facilitate the encounter, try lying on your side where the ostomy pouch is so that it is supported down and is not an obstacle. It is advisable that you avoid positions in which the pouch is pressed.

12. The LGBT community has the same concerns and fears about sex after ostomy surgery as everyone else. The removal of the rectum and closure of the anus can be challenging for someone with an ileostomy or colostomy, so other methods of sexual pleasure should be discussed and discussed. Seek communication with your partner and be open with your medical team. You will be able to find satisfactory solutions to your situation.

13. In more compromising situations, try to bring some humor. The noise sometimes caused by the stoma can lead to a quick joke.

Ostomy Products | Colostomy Bag Covers | SIIL Ostomy | Ostomy Belt | Ileostomy Underwear

Mía Wrap Cream

The sexual life of each person, as well as tastes or inclinations can be very diverse as well as complex and private so it is advisable that if you have any doubts, go to your doctor or stomatotherapist and consult with them about everything as well as the problems that may arise.

Comparte este post:

Tabla de contenidos

DISCOVER OSTOMY ACCESSORIES

DISCOVER MORE ARTICLES ABOUT OSTOMY

Select Ostomy Category

Living with a stoma can present a range of challenges, but it shouldn’t prevent you…

Living with a stoma can present a range of challenges, but it shouldn’t prevent you…

What is an Ostomy? An ostomy is a surgical procedure that involves creating an opening…

Living with an ostomy can be a transformative and emotional journey, filled with both challenges…

Telling people you have an ostomy is up to you. It probably makes sense to…

In general, the care and considerations for ostomized children and adolescents are the same as…

How can the stoma evolve? It is common for the stoma to change its appearance…

Understanding Ostomy: A Comprehensive Guide Ostomy, a term that may seem foreign to many, is…

Fear and uncertainty are normal when it comes to recovering your sex life. If you…

For a person with an ostomy, the moment before a sexual encounter can generate fear…

And much more...

Ostomy Bags Types: An Ostomate Guide 🎓💜 An ostomy is a life-changing procedure that can…

Learning To Embrace Your Scars: 🤔 Hola!️ Hope you are doing well , Maria writting… At…

As an ostomate, managing your ostomy can be a challenging but ultimately rewarding experience. Whether…

Having an ostomy can sometimes cause problems. One of the biggest fears of people with…

Prevention is key in stoma care, but sometimes complications arise after ostomy surgery. These can…

When your ostomy surgery is recent, one of the first questions you will ask yourself…

The first step to receive an adequate treatment for your ostomy is to diagnose correctly…

Ostomy Ostomy surgery is a life-changing procedure that allows individuals with certain medical conditions to…

And much more...

Another issue that is often on the mind of a person with an ostomy when…

And much more...

Introduction to Convatec What is Convatec? Convatec is a global medical technology company renowned for…

Living with an ostomy shouldn’t limit your sense of style, comfort, or confidence. At SIIL…

Introduction Ostomy surgery can be a life-altering experience. Whether it’s due to colon cancer, Crohn’s…

Colostomy bags an introduction Colostomy is a surgical procedure that creates an opening in the…

What is an Ostomy Bag? An ostomy bag, also known as a stoma bag or…

Ostomy clothing is something that a person wearing an ostomy bag has doubts about, both…

And much more...

Discover Favorited Ostomy Products

SIIL Ostomy | Ostomy undergarments | Ostomy products | colostomy bag covers

Log in:

Elevate Your Ostomy Journey!

Unlock a Better Ostomy Lifestyle – Stay Connected!